Skylark Vision

Introduction: When “Lost” Is the Wrong Word Many people describe their current phase of life with one heavy sentence: “I feel lost.” Lost in career. Lost in purpose. Lost in identity. Lost in direction. But what if lost isn’t accurate? What if this discomfort, confusion, and uncertainty isn’t a sign of failure—but a sign of transition ? Growth rarely feels like clarity at first. More often, it feels like disorientation . Why Feeling Lost Is So Common During Growth We grow out of identities before we grow into new ones. The old version of you: Knew the rules Had familiar goals Felt predictable The emerging version of you: Questions old priorities Feels unsettled Hasn’t found language yet This in-between space feels uncomfortable because certainty has expired , but clarity hasn’t arrived. And society doesn’t teach us how to sit with that. The Pressure to Always “Know What You’re Doing” Modern culture praises decisiveness. We’re expected to: Have a clear plan ...